Common Mistakes To Avoid During A Divorce

14 February 2018
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Divorce is a difficult process; don't let a mistake make the process even more challenging. If you are heading towards this unfortunate outcome in your marriage, ensure you know what mistakes to avoid.

Making Assumptions

It doesn't matter if you were with your partner for three years or 30 years; it's important to understand that you knew him or her as a companion, not as someone going through a divorce. While that's not to say that your spouse will try to take advantage of you, never assume that they are necessarily going to have your best interest at heart, especially if tension and discourse are surrounding the divorce. Always ensure that you are working to protect yourself.

Not Analyzing Your Finances

Take the time to analyze your finances. Divorce comes along with a significant financial change, as you're going from a dual-income lifestyle to a single-income lifestyle. Don't make the mistake of not going over your finances before you file. The information you collect from this process will help you determine what level of support, if any, you will require from your spouse. If you and your spouse have children together and you plan to seek custody, this step is critically important to secure your financial future.

Moving Out

Divorce is not always a pleasant experience, and to get away from much of the tension and conflict that builds up, one spouse will usually choose to move out of the marital home. If you are planning to seek spousal support, do not make this move. Unless there is abuse or some other extreme circumstance, when you voluntarily move out of the home, you give the impression that you are financially independent. When you take your case before a judge, they may lower or deny your support as a result. Stay in the home and let your partner leave if they want to.

Failing to Communicate

Make sure you're communicating with your spouse during the divorce process. One of the leading factors that make divorces so difficult is miscommunication. One spouse doesn't know what the other one needs or wants, which creates unnecessary drama and drags the process out. Take the time to communicate with your spouse to work through the process, and if necessary bring in someone who can speak on your behalf, such as an attorney, if the situation is especially tense.

Ensure you aren't making these mistakes. If you're planning to file for a divorce, don't hesitate to partner with an attorney, such as Moore Robert G Attorney at Law, to avoid these, and many other, mistakes.